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Three years on autopilot: The day I realized I had stopped reviewing my life

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Latest Journal Entries

  • PLAY THE LONG GAME

    Sometime in November, 2002 we had just completed writing our final grade 9 exam paper and as we stepped out of the exam room we were on cloud 9. Our junior secondary days were over! As I caught up with my friends knowing that for most of them this was the end of the journey…

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  • LESSONS FROM PETER’S AND NOLIANGA’S WEDDING

    “How much do you put in your marriage as you prepare for the wedding day? Do you think about what lies ahead beyond the wedding day? …….Marriage is not just about the flair and splendor of the wedding day. Wrong perception about marriage has potential to damage or ruin your marriage.” These are the words the Pastor…

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  • WHOSE PLAN HAVE YOU BOUGHT?

     I recently had a phone conversation with my friend and former classmate from junior to high school. As it had been a while since our last communication, I noticed a significant change in the contents of our verbal chat. The conversations seemed more deeper and probing as rather than talking about the usual gossip and…

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  • DONT WORRY ABOUT MOTIVATING OTHERS, WORRY ABOUT GETTING DE-MOTIVATED BY OTHERS

    Have you ever found yourself in a situation in which you have to collaborate with others to achieve results? This could be in your marriage, work, business or at school. You may be eager to do your part but with time you begin to realize that others may not be meeting their end of the…

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About the Author

I am an engineer who journals life lessons—reflections, patterns, and lessons worth sharing.
I write about slowing down, paying attention, and figuring out what actually matters beyond the day-to-day grind.