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A Different Kind of Year-End: Sitting Still as 2025 Turns to 2026

Designing life first — not goals. A quiet reset for choosing the lifestyle you actually want to live.

Daily Conversations Can Change Your Life

The words you repeat daily shape your identity. Small conversations quietly rewrite your future.

Three years on autopilot: The day I realized I had stopped reviewing my life

Three years passed before I noticed I was drifting. A wake-up call on living deliberately.

Latest Journal Entries

  • DAILY CONVERSATIONS CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE

    In early 2002, after collecting my previous school terms results, I had yet again performed ‘poorly’, and my mother was clearly disappointed. That day when we reached home, she sat me down and had a long conversation with me. At the time, I didn’t know why she wasn’t happy because for me the results were…

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  • CREATE YOUR OWN TEMPLATE

    I recently attended an online training focused on bidding for tenders. Towards the end of the session, one of the participants made a request to the trainer who had over 25 years’ experience in this field: “Are you able to assist us with a standard/best template which we can use when working on any future tender?”…

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  • LESSONS FROM A WEDDING

    I attended a wedding last week and I was excited not only for the couple getting married but my own selfish interest-to be reminded of what I needed to do to keep my marriage happy. This has now been my approach when am invited for these occasions since my meeting with our Managing Director at…

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  • UPDATE YOUR OPERATING SYSTEM (OS)

     Two weeks ago, a good friend of mine complained about some of his phone apps (WhatsApp, Zoom, etc) not working well. Either they were too slow or were freezing (stalling) while in use which was frustrating him. The phone had been working well until then. I figured that perhaps the apps didn’t install correctly and…

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About the Author

I am an engineer who journals life lessons—reflections, patterns, and lessons worth sharing.
I write about slowing down, paying attention, and figuring out what actually matters beyond the day-to-day grind.