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Three years on autopilot: The day I realized I had stopped reviewing my life

Three years passed before I noticed I was drifting. A wake-up call on living deliberately.

Latest Journal Entries

  • BETTER LATE THAN NEVER

    As I drive to and from work on the Ndola-Kitwe Road, I have on occasions come across heavy downpour of rain. This can be frustrating as I have had to pull over or proceed with extreme caution arriving late for work or an appointment.  That is what happens with life, a condition (bad weather) may…

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  • LESSONS FROM ZEMBA AND SYLVIA’S WEDDING

    “Should marriage be a lifetime union or commitment?” The preacher paused as he looked intently at the soon to be wed couple with these opening remarks to his marriage talk. “To know the answer, we can start by looking at the marriage vows, what do they say?” He continued. “For better for worse…. till death…

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  • LESSONS FROM A MEMORIAL SERVICE

    “In the next 100 years none of us in this meeting will be here. But we don’t want to think about it and would rather think about other things. When one of our close loved one’s dies; we are forced to think about our own death.” The above were the opening remarks one of the…

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  • WHY A 3D APPROACH TO LIFE?

    The short-lived answer to this question is because I want to be happy. And by this, I mean experience joy in all areas of my life. I have only one life. And this life that I was given has several components/spheres to it. i) Social Dimension On one part is the social aspect in which…

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About the Author

I am an engineer who journals life lessons—reflections, patterns, and lessons worth sharing.
I write about slowing down, paying attention, and figuring out what actually matters beyond the day-to-day grind.