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A Different Kind of Year-End: Sitting Still as 2025 Turns to 2026
Designing life first — not goals. A quiet reset for choosing the lifestyle you actually want to live.

Daily Conversations Can Change Your Life
The words you repeat daily shape your identity. Small conversations quietly rewrite your future.

Three years on autopilot: The day I realized I had stopped reviewing my life
Three years passed before I noticed I was drifting. A wake-up call on living deliberately.
Latest Journal Entries
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“MAFIFI” STATE OF MIND
Continue Reading: “MAFIFI” STATE OF MINDOne of the busiest periods of my life was the time I was at the University of Zambia (Unza). Doing a demanding program (Engineering), I barely had time to myself. Most of my life was focussed on engaging in academic work such as attending classes, doing assignments, studying, and attending lab sessions. I was either…
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HOW TO WIN AGAINST TIME
Continue Reading: HOW TO WIN AGAINST TIME“Life is a game and in order to win any game, you need to understand the game.” This is perhaps my father in laws favourite phrase. Having had numerous conversations, he has explained this concept to me in detail which will be subject for another day. Now long retired medical doctor to focus on his…
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BETTER LATE THAN NEVER
Continue Reading: BETTER LATE THAN NEVERAs I drive to and from work on the Ndola-Kitwe Road, I have on occasions come across heavy downpour of rain. This can be frustrating as I have had to pull over or proceed with extreme caution arriving late for work or an appointment. That is what happens with life, a condition (bad weather) may…
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LESSONS FROM ZEMBA AND SYLVIA’S WEDDING
Continue Reading: LESSONS FROM ZEMBA AND SYLVIA’S WEDDING“Should marriage be a lifetime union or commitment?” The preacher paused as he looked intently at the soon to be wed couple with these opening remarks to his marriage talk. “To know the answer, we can start by looking at the marriage vows, what do they say?” He continued. “For better for worse…. till death…
About the Author

I am an engineer who journals life lessons—reflections, patterns, and lessons worth sharing.
I write about slowing down, paying attention, and figuring out what actually matters beyond the day-to-day grind.