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A Different Kind of Year-End: Sitting Still as 2025 Turns to 2026

Designing life first — not goals. A quiet reset for choosing the lifestyle you actually want to live.

Daily Conversations Can Change Your Life

The words you repeat daily shape your identity. Small conversations quietly rewrite your future.

Three years on autopilot: The day I realized I had stopped reviewing my life

Three years passed before I noticed I was drifting. A wake-up call on living deliberately.

Latest Journal Entries

  • LESSONS FROM A MEMORIAL SERVICE

    “In the next 100 years none of us in this meeting will be here. But we don’t want to think about it and would rather think about other things. When one of our close loved one’s dies; we are forced to think about our own death.” The above were the opening remarks one of the…

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  • WHY A 3D APPROACH TO LIFE?

    The short-lived answer to this question is because I want to be happy. And by this, I mean experience joy in all areas of my life. I have only one life. And this life that I was given has several components/spheres to it. i) Social Dimension On one part is the social aspect in which…

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  • PLAY THE LONG GAME

    Sometime in November, 2002 we had just completed writing our final grade 9 exam paper and as we stepped out of the exam room we were on cloud 9. Our junior secondary days were over! As I caught up with my friends knowing that for most of them this was the end of the journey…

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  • LESSONS FROM PETER’S AND NOLIANGA’S WEDDING

    “How much do you put in your marriage as you prepare for the wedding day? Do you think about what lies ahead beyond the wedding day? …….Marriage is not just about the flair and splendor of the wedding day. Wrong perception about marriage has potential to damage or ruin your marriage.” These are the words the Pastor…

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About the Author

I am an engineer who journals life lessons—reflections, patterns, and lessons worth sharing.
I write about slowing down, paying attention, and figuring out what actually matters beyond the day-to-day grind.