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A Different Kind of Year-End: Sitting Still as 2025 Turns to 2026

Designing life first — not goals. A quiet reset for choosing the lifestyle you actually want to live.

Daily Conversations Can Change Your Life

The words you repeat daily shape your identity. Small conversations quietly rewrite your future.

Three years on autopilot: The day I realized I had stopped reviewing my life

Three years passed before I noticed I was drifting. A wake-up call on living deliberately.

Latest Journal Entries

  • GAME HIGHLIGHTS ILLUSION

    “This was a very exciting and close game, 4-3!” These were the words my wife said as she watched highlights of the Champions League 1st leg encounter between Real Madrid and Manchester City. Having watched the full game a night before, I remember thinking to myself, exciting game yes, close game-No! City should have buried…

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  • WHAT ARE YOU LACKING?

     “Before the war, my dream was to play a match with Roger Federer but now the only thing I wish for is to survive.” These were the words echoed by 97-year-old Ukrainian Leonid Stanislavskyi who happens to be the oldest Tennis player in the world.   Watching events unfold in Ukraine has made me realize how…

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  • HOW TO AVOID OVERUNNING YOUR “PROGRAMS”

    Russian’s invasion of Ukraine has made me watch international news channels such as Al Jazeera, CNN, etc in past 3 weeks than I have for most of my life. In this same period, because of the state burial, I watched our national broadcaster’s news and made an interesting observation.   This bordered on the level…

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  • HOW WILL YOU BE REMEMBERED?

    On Friday 18th March 2022, as I followed proceedings of the burial of Zambia’s fourth president, Rupiah Banda on ZNBC, I could not help but be moved by the many sentiments said about the deceased. Family, friends, and people from all walks of life recounted the special moments they had with someone who was affectionately…

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About the Author

I am an engineer who journals life lessons—reflections, patterns, and lessons worth sharing.
I write about slowing down, paying attention, and figuring out what actually matters beyond the day-to-day grind.